I don't know if I am at the appropriate board so please redirect me and forgive me if I am in the wrong place!
In short, I am a Christian wife and mother, married for over 16 yrs with 3 beautiful children. My husband has battled drug and alcohol addiction for several yrs, but beacuse he has a great job and still functions, thinks he is okay. He is hurting us deeply and won't get help or even consult with our pastor. I am at my wits end and feel the children and I need to leave for safety reasons and to open up his eyes. My 11 yr old son is aware of the drinking but not the other addictions which involve speed and pot. He has been hurt by my husbands alcohol use, including his being drunk at my sons birthday, leepover party recently. Help! Should I leave if he refuses to change or get help! Hurting and wanting to follow Gods will in California